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Tag: mental-health
A Little Light, A Little Green, A Little Hope
I noticed the tiniest hints of spring this week—nothing big or dramatic, just small signs of life returning. And it reminded me that growth doesn’t always announce itself. Sometimes it begins quietly, beneath the surface, long before we feel “ready.” Quiet growth counts, too.
This is me. Straight Outta My Mind.
An intro to Straight Outta My Mind, which came from my love of writing, connection, and being real. I’m an INFJ introvert, mom, autoimmune + holistic girl, Amazon affiliate, and photography/travel enthusiast sharing the messy, meaningful, and relatable parts of life. If you’re a little crazy too… welcome.
Signs You Might Be an INFJ
You’ve probably been called “quiet,” “sensitive,” or “hard to read.” But inside, there’s an entire universe happening. If you’ve ever wondered whether you might be an INFJ, here are ten signs that might feel a little too familiar.
How to Love the INFJ in Your Life
Loving an INFJ requires something simple - and surprisingly rare.
Living Softly in a Loud World
Being an INFJ means feeling everything deeper than most — your own emotions and the emotions of everyone you love. Funerals, celebrations, goodbyes… they all hit hard in ways that are hard to explain. So when I say no to plans, it’s rarely about the event. It’s about capacity. It’s about protecting the quiet space where I reset, reflect, and heal. My withdrawal isn’t rejection. It’s self-preservation. And if you’re wired like this too — your sensitivity isn’t weakness. It’s a gift that simply needs gentler handling.
Holding Hope, Embracing Reality
The new year promises fresh starts and big dreams, but when you live with an unpredictable body, hope feels more complicated. I want to plan, to believe, to reach forward—yet I also carry the weight of what my diagnosis has already changed. This year, I’m learning that I don’t have to choose between dreaming and being realistic. I can hold hope with open hands, and embrace reality with grace.
For the One Who Is Struggling This Christmas
Not every Christmas is wrapped in joy and bright lights. For those carrying grief, stress, or uncertainty, this season can feel especially hard—but even here, hope can still quietly exist.
When You’re Your Own Biggest Foe
Living with Crohn’s and Ulcerative Colitis I’ve learned that with Crohn’s and ulcerative colitis, I’m often my own biggest foe. Yes—technically, my body is fighting against itself. But what I really mean is my struggle with perseverance. The Everyday Battle Every day, I have to tell myself no to things that once brought me joy.… Continue reading When You’re Your Own Biggest Foe
Remembering the Heart of Marriage in the Midst of Motherhood
It isn't often that I write a post in reference to a previously reviewed book. Today, I will. This is for the moms out there… I was re-reading Hope Unfolding by Becky Thompson recently when I came across something I had completely forgotten—something I believe so many moms need to hear. Becky managed to put… Continue reading Remembering the Heart of Marriage in the Midst of Motherhood
Straight Outta My Mind 